Arya is your personalized intimacy coach
We make sex talk easier and send you the good stuff
Oh , the anticipation
See what 25,000+ couples think
“Joining the exclusive Arya community has been a game-changer for us. It’s the secret to deepening our connection and exploring our sexuality in ways we never thought possible.”
Jason R. 41, Verified member
"My husband's reaction when our first Scene started… ‘babe, where did THIS come from?... OMG!"
Rebecca, age 38
"Watching someone I have so much love and respect for, try something outside of her comfort zone was such a turn-on!"
Mike, age 41
"We are really enjoying how Arya is aiding and spicing up our sex life!"
Lauren, age 35
"Arya has helped establish a healthy and fun way to communicate with my partner about what we each prefer. I think we both feel heard and more comfortable exploring new options."
Dylan, age 33
“Arya is our little secret to keeping our sex life exciting and intimate. We’re so grateful to be part of the exclusive community.”
Veronica, age 29
"I think my husband was surprised at how much he liked being the focus of this scene. We both like it when he takes the lead, which he does most of the time, but this was lovely for us both."
Emily, age 37
“I love this program. This year me and my partner set a goal to have more sex and Arya is definitely helping make it way more fun!”
Aisha, age 42
“I think more so than the actual toys, it was just our increased intimacy, our ability to trust each other and kind of that spirit of playfulness together.”
Carlos, age 39
"Our Sense and Sensuality play was off the charts. We loved the texts, stories, anticipation, and build up. We have played before with blindfolds, vibrators, and other toys, but Arya brought it all together nicely and focusing on the senses and not just sex was perfect."
Michael, age 35
"Love how the Scene allowed us to both safely open up to trying new things without pressure or expectations or awkwardness."
Rachel, age 43
SENSE & SENSUALITY
Extend foreplay and experiment with new sensations to enhance your sexual satisfaction.
Collection:
The Art of Touch
Skills:
- Extended Foreplay,
- Pleasure Mapping,
- Sensation Play
DELAY & OBEY
Explore each other's pleasure zones and discover innovative and playful ways to keep your intimate moments exciting and erotic.
Collection:
Own Your Pleasure
Skills:
- Sexual Adventure,
- Sensual Discovery,
- Pleasure Zones
PLAYFUL DISCOVERIES
Share your innermost desires and connect with your partner by leaning into each other's sexual communication styles.
Collection:
Erotic Expression
Skills:
- Intimate Dialog,
- Erotic Exploration,
- Discovering Desires
Ready to play?
Start with the quiz and gain a fresh perspective on your sexual connection with yourself and your partner.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Is this just a subscription box?
Nope! Each month you'll receive expert guidance through written content, educational videos, and detailed illustrations to help you bring your Scene to life. Yes, the Arya Box items are amazing, but every month is curated journey toward great sex!
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Is Arya only for Couples?
Each Arya Scene is designed for a couple to participate. Introducing your partner to Arya will deepen your experience and add value to your intimate lives. Although, you will still find value exploring solo.
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We want to experience more kink, is this box too vanilla for us?
Of course not! We create Scenes to cater to various interests and desires. Based on user feedback, even the most seasoned 'Kinksters' have enjoyed the boost in erotic communication and intimate inspiration.
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I rarely talk to my partner about sex and intimacy, can you help with that?
This is why Arya exists! We're completely confidential, judgement-free, and here to guide you through any conversations about sex, desires, and intimacy. Arya will give you helpful hints and conversation starters to have open conversations with your partner.
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My partner and I are into different things and have different desires, will this still work for us?
It's super normal for you and your partner to have different desires! Arya will help you create a space where you both feel comfortable talking about your desires. If you partner likes something you're not into (or vice versa); we'll help you find a way to explore them in ways that benefit both of you.
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Do I get to choose my box items each month?
Nope, your Arya Box is curated by our in-house sexologists. They've selected premium products to elevate your Scene experience.
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Is Arya going to send me tons of sex toys every month?
Yes and no. This depends on what you consider a sex toy. You'll receive items that are hand-selected to enhance your play. This can range from vibrators to lubes, to impact toys or devices you've never even thought of buying. Each Arya Box will have the exact products you need to experiene your monthly Scene together.
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Am I too old to benefit from Arya?
You're never too old for great sex! Couples of all age ranges love using Arya.
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We've been together for so long, what can we possible gain from Arya?
Sexual adventure! 1 out of 4 people who join Arya are looking for ways to make sex more adventerous. The best way to spice up your bedroom is by exploring novel sexual experiences and Arya is here to give you a boost in your sensual exploration.
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I have an injury or illness that impacts my sex life, can I still enjoy Arya?
Chronic discomfort or pain during sex doesn't stop Arya couples from finding pleasure in new sides of eroticism. While we're big fans of the main event, an Arya Scene is designed to give you sexual experiences to explore without relying solely on penetration.
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CONCIERGE
Meet your relationship's wingman. A real person guides you to better sex and connection.
How we do it:
SCENES
Curated intimate experiences. Sexologist-crafted activities, videos, playlists, erotica, and more.
GOODs
Everything you need, delivered discreetly to your door every month.
The anticipation's killing us too.
Today
Today
In 2-5 days
Your Concierge hand selects and ships everything you need for your night of play.
Your Concierge hand selects and ships everything you need for your night of play.
In 7 days
Unlock your Arya journey: we take the guesswork away through Scenes chosen for your personal desires.
Unlock your Arya journey: we take the guesswork away through Scenes chosen for your personal desires.
In 2-5 Days
Take the quiz to find the best play style for your relationship and meet your your Concierge.
In 2-5 Days
Take the quiz to find the best play style for your relationship and meet your your Concierge.
Still not sure about Scenes?
Maybe you're interested in sensory play. Or you've tried bondage but want to go deeper. As we get to know your interests and preferences, your Concierge hand-selects the best Scene for you and your partner every month.
Our Blog: Behind The Scenes
BTS is the place to find answers to your most vulnerable and intimate questions, and to discover new ways to deepen intimacy through erotic exploration with your partner. Close the door, dim the lights, and come inside.
Meet our advisors
Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz
Author and Sociologist
Prof. Pepper Schwartz is a renowned sexologist and sociologist at the University of Washington, and a frequent media expert on relationships, notably on "Married at First Sight."
Dr. Yael Doron
Relationship and Rehabilitation Psychologist
Dr. Yael Doron is a psychologist and founder of Zugot Institute, known for her expertise in relationship therapy and her role on Israel's "Married at First Sight".
Nicholas Velotta
Head of Relationship Research
Nicholas Velotta, a doctoral student at UW, specializes in research on sexuality, relationships, and gender, with a focus on non-binary gender studies and couple dynamics.
Athena Gayle
Sex Copywriter
Athena Gayle is a sextech copywriter specializing in sexual wellness and adult brands, with a passion for kink community and promoting positive sex lives.
Karolina Wilde
Erotica Author and Writer
Karolina Wilde is a journalist, fantasy romance author of "House of Pain," and sex-positive freelance writer, balancing her writing with a love for chocolate and World of Warcraft.
Free shipping on all multi-month plans
Unlock your Arya journey: we take the guesswork away through Scenes chosen for your personal desires.
Your Concierge hand selects and ships everything you need for your night of play.
Here's what's next:
In 7 days
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